Traditional weddings don’t always leave space for everyone at the table—especially if you’re queer, gender-expansive, polyamorous, or spiritual in a way that defies easy labels.

That’s where rituals come in. Real, grounded, magical rituals. They give you room to show up as your full, messy, holy self and say, “This is who I am. This is who I love.”

At Ember & Oath, we’ve helped craft rituals where:

• Two nonbinary partners blessed each other with smoke and ash.

• A throuple shared vows beneath a veiled sky.

• A couple brought their queer community to the center of the altar.

• A handfasting was sealed with sigils drawn in red clay and moon water.

You don’t need permission to create a ritual that reflects you. You just need someone to witness you as you rise in love.

This is your reminder: Your love is worthy of ceremony. Your spirit deserves celebration.